Being dependable is one of the most important aspects of being a good friend. Your friend will need you for support, especially in hard times. Nobody wants to be friends with someone who actually isn't interested in them. It's hard to rely on a person who doesn't behave in a consistent and trustworthy way. We all know well-intentioned but flaky people who say, "Okay, I will..." but never follow through. If that's you, know that you're eroding your friends' trust; eventually, they'll stop believing what you say.
It's really important to have a true friend, who is always there for you. When you're in trouble he or she has to be there for you, even when you feel sad, angry, mad or even happy. Friends must be by your side. It doesn't mean that you don't have to do the same things. No, you have to do the same things and even try to do something more. First to find a real friend, you have to show them that you are also this kind of friend. You have to show that you care about your friend by respecting them, loving them, and sharing in their feelings. That's why friends are for. You have to show your friend that they can have your trust and you have to keep their secrets. You might be a bad friend If you start blaming them for everything. Maybe you don't realize that you feel like nothing is your fault and you are always right and everything wrong is because of them. And NEVER only spend time only when you need something, because that is the rudest thing you are doing in our friendship. You have to think how they feel and that maybe sometimes you are saying things that may hurt more than knives. Yeah, you may argue from time to time, but that's alright. It's natural. You have to know when they're serious and when goofy, because this can make you into fight. Make your friend feel wanted, for example to say the words ,, You are such a good friend". ,,I like hanging out with you so much". You don't have to be together 24 hours and you both need space. Be honest with your words, because that helps to the friendship. If you did something bad to your friend, then you have to learn how to apologize. And don't even think that you're gonna swallow your pride or something. You have to start saying yes to your friend and also make more time for them.
It's really important to have a true friend, who is always there for you. When you're in trouble he or she has to be there for you, even when you feel sad, angry, mad or even happy. Friends must be by your side. It doesn't mean that you don't have to do the same things. No, you have to do the same things and even try to do something more. First to find a real friend, you have to show them that you are also this kind of friend. You have to show that you care about your friend by respecting them, loving them, and sharing in their feelings. That's why friends are for. You have to show your friend that they can have your trust and you have to keep their secrets. You might be a bad friend If you start blaming them for everything. Maybe you don't realize that you feel like nothing is your fault and you are always right and everything wrong is because of them. And NEVER only spend time only when you need something, because that is the rudest thing you are doing in our friendship. You have to think how they feel and that maybe sometimes you are saying things that may hurt more than knives. Yeah, you may argue from time to time, but that's alright. It's natural. You have to know when they're serious and when goofy, because this can make you into fight. Make your friend feel wanted, for example to say the words ,, You are such a good friend". ,,I like hanging out with you so much". You don't have to be together 24 hours and you both need space. Be honest with your words, because that helps to the friendship. If you did something bad to your friend, then you have to learn how to apologize. And don't even think that you're gonna swallow your pride or something. You have to start saying yes to your friend and also make more time for them.
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